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Too Many Children(Everyone Else Pays For) (Fairview, USA)


Date: 2009-11-05, 9:23AM EST
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The Octomom comes to mind for this post. Single mother. Six kids. Wants just one more. Winds up with 8 more. Totaling in 14.

Who is paying for these little miracles?

Diaper companies, Formula companies, Kids' clothing companies, shall I go on? Some asinine company even built her a HOUSE!!! A four bedroom house to room 15 people? DHS is not even touching this habitat?

I knew a family who had 9 children in a 4 bedroom house. Both parents were working and provided well for their children. They did not have video games, the latest fashion, etc., but the necessities like shelter, food, schooling. They were a close knit family. But DHS came in and saw that it was not a "habitable place for the family" because there were too many people in one house. They forced them to either give up a few of their children, or move. They could not afford to move, so some of the children seperated and lived in relatives' houses. They were seperated because the house was too small.

Do you see that happening here? This idiotic and selfish bitch decides to use her children for 15 minutes of fame and nothing happens to her. Nothing. Everyone says "aww look how cute the babies are" and everyone thinks she's such a great mom.

The state she resides in should have given those babies stable homes. This bitch could not possibly provide for them after her year of free baby food, clothing, etc is up. What about a mortgage? Who is paying for her to be at home with them? She cannot possibly afford daycare!

It takes about a 1/2 hour to feed an infant. When they were infants that would mean 4 hours to feed 8 kids. Every 4 hours the babies should eat so she was spending all of her time feeding them. Plus what about the other 6 kids she had to take care of? Where were their individualized care? Kids need to have time. They need time to be nurtured. Time to be individuals. This woman does not even have a NANNY because she fired the free nannies because they were "taking over." HELLO!!! That is their JOB, jackass!

It bewilders me that she could have all of these children for selfish reasons and there are so many people out there willing to literally give an arm and a leg to have just ONE. They must be looking at her like it is a slap in the face. Because it is. I know a few people who could not afford the fertility treatments this bitch received, yet she has way little then them and gets it for free. Because some jackass doctor wants to make history. They did this on purpose. You cannot tell me that she only wanted one and wound up with 8 "by accident."

I hate selfish human beings. Anyone who aborts their children are also deemed selfish. When someone would die for a child, they go and abort. Most of the reasons are selfish ones - they cannot "afford" it (there are programs who will pay for ALL expenses for you to give up the child), they do not want to give away their child because they will get "attached" (dont give it away, destroy it instead??!! Sounds like the spoiled selfish child who hopes if they die before they wake that God will break his/her toys so the other kids cannot play with them while they are gone). There is NO REASON AT ALL to have an abortion. None. Give me a reason, any reason and I will turn it back around.

One thing that Octomom did not do which I give her a lot of credit for was "termination for elimination". She chose to have ALL of her children. She could have chosen to eliminate some and she did not. That was a commendable act. But she should never have experimented in the first place.

I hate hearing about these people who think "the more the merrier" and cannot afford to feed even one. They have these babies and expect the rest of us to pay for them out of "pity". It is not fair. I do not pity anyone who knows they cannot afford a child and go and deliberately get pregnant just to mooch off the rest of us. Use birth control. Bringing a child into this world under false pretenses is not only disgusting, it is selfish. If you get pregnant by accident, give the baby to a family who will legitimately provide for him/her and give them everything they possibly can to ensure a decent, healthy life.

We can stop this madness by not allowing it to happen in the first place. Fertility doctors should only be used legitimately. And only if you are able to afford it.

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